My Story

I have a master’s in Marriage and Family Therapy and spent 15 years as a licensed therapist in private practice before shifting to coaching and consulting full time. My training has also been shaped by Bowen family systems theory, Internal Family Systems, solution-focused work, mediation, and collaborative law.

But formal training only tells part of the story. What I bring also comes from years spent inside complex systems, high-conflict and high-achieving alike: marriages, families, executive teams, entire organizations. That range is part of why I wrote The Ninja Exit. What matters most to me is watching someone become more fully who they’re capable of being.

Today my practice includes individuals, couples, and families already doing well and moving through a transition they saw coming or didn’t; business leaders building stronger systems, not just solving what’s not working; complex cases alongside attorneys, mediators, and court-appointed advocates; and increasingly, questions about sexuality and desire. Whatever the setting, the approach doesn’t change: I ask questions, not answers.